She’s with someone, but…
She’ll leave them for someone who makes her laugh, gives her more time, puts her first, listens to her dreams, makes an effort to help her achieve them.
She wants someone who makes her feel special.
He’s with someone, but…
He’ll leave them for someone who listens, is always there for him, is smart, is active in the community, makes an effort to understand what he’s going through.
He wants someone who cares.
What are you gonna do about it?
- Be where they hang out.
- Make yourself standout.
- Be confident that you are a better option for them.
- Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself.
- Show them you’re special, don’t tell them.
- Be persistent.
- Give them time, change is hard.
If it turns out that they want someone with more money, let them go. If they only want looks and image, forget them. If they want someone because they are popular or famous, they’re not worth your time.
Once you get them, work every single day to keep them. There’s always someone who may be willing to work harder.